I know that I said I will dive into the four stages of male nature this week. Let’s put a pin in that for now as I have a more pressing matter to discuss.
Let’s get to work.
When I was married, although I did do a lot of things wrong, I also did a lot of things right. I paid 100% of the bills on time… every time. I laid the pipe…well. Whenever her family needed help, I was there. I drove a beat-up truck so that she could drive the newest car. I took her on vacation to Paris, Hawaii, New York, Florida, Las Vegas, California, and Chicago. I raised her children to be good people. I poured everything I could into that woman. Yet still, she left me for a woman. I find it funny how much men care about height and dick size. I was left for someone who was barely 5 foot tall and had no dick at all.
You can become the best version of yourself, can sacrifice everything, and your woman can still leave you. Which brings me to point of this article. A woman doesn’t commit to you. A woman isn’t loyal to you. A woman isn’t faithful to you. A woman is only committed, loyal, and faithful to you when she is committed, loyal, and faithful… to God.
If God is not God in a woman’s life, then that means something else is her God. Sex is her God. Money is her God. Attention is her God. Without God, a woman will be more against you than for you. That is because a woman cannot serve two masters. She can either serve God, who cultivates love, or serve the world, in which cultivates hate.
Successful unity between man and woman has nothing to do with romantic love and everything to do with God’s business. God is in the business of PARTNERING with man and woman to carry out his will and joining them together so that they may be fruitful and multiply… aka marriage. “Be fruitful and multiply. Fill the earth and subdue it and have DOMINION over the fish in the sea and over the birds of the heavens and over every living thing that moves on the earth.” (Genesis 1:28) A man is to be fruitful, as in, on his purpose. A woman is to HELP that man be fruitful. Being fruitful means to produce. While being fruitful, they are to reproduce and rule over the earth. Both man and woman WORK together in unison to bring this, which is God’s will, into fruition.
Now if you don’t believe in God, you don’t need to be trying to lead a woman. If a woman cannot see you submitting to God, how can you expect her to submit to you? You might as well just try that 50/50 bullshit everybody else is on or run the streets. Getting into a relationship and/ or marriage without God is like getting into the restaurant business and never intending to deal with food or adhering to any of the guidelines pertaining to food. You can have all the love you want for your business but if you are not in alignment with the purpose of your business…you will fail.
Why am I talking about this? Because I see people who are in relationships struggling the same way I once struggled. People are lying, cheating, and hurting each other, all in the name of LOVE. People are struggling with each other because they are missing the main ingredient to a harmonious relationship…God. Honor the design and you honor yourself. If your woman doesn’t rock with God for real, you will not know peace. She will see her relationship with you only as a status symbol or a way to fill some type of void and not as the business it is intended to be.
I’m not saying to avoid Godless women. I’m saying to avoid getting into God’s business with Godless women.
Be fruitful outchea.
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