“Should I admit that a slutty chick was my first smash? Wasn’t experienced, so nah I didn’t wear it out, always thought my first time would be someone I cared about…”- J. Cole “Too Deep for the Intro”
Let’s Go 2 Work.
I lost my virginity to a whore.
Not a street walker, I actually can’t knock their hustle. And not a ho, ho’s be loud and proud with it. A whore, a con artist who pretends to be wifey material but secretly fucks everybody and anybody for cash, drugs, and material goods.
Looking back, there were super obvious signs. For one, and I couldn’t understand why, she never wanted to kiss on the lips. Two, every weekend she would go “dancing.” It wasn’t until much later that I found out dancing was code for stripping. You gotta cut me some slack here, like, who the fuck strips in high school? Three, her favorite movie was “Pretty Woman.”
I’ve never cared to watch that movie until a few days ago. Netflix had it under “new releases” and I figured, why not?
To save you some time, “Pretty Woman” was released in 1990 and stars Julia Roberts and Richard Gere. Unbeknownst to me, the movie is about a prostitute who doesn’t kiss her clients on the lips and gets saved from the streets by a rich guy at the end. I must say though, besides wifing up a prostitute, Richard Gere’s character provides a great example of how a masculine Self-Made Man should conduct himself.
There is a hot tub scene where Gere revealed, “My father divorced my mother to be with another woman. And he took his money with him. And then she died. I was very angry with him. It cost me $10,000 in therapy to say that sentence.”
At the time when I was dating shorty, I too, was very angry with my father.
Which brings me to this...
Weak men, feminine men, male feminists, simps, and nice guys who wife up whores all have…daddy issues.
A man with a good father wants to make his father proud and honor his bloodline. Therefore, he will only date and marry women that will help him to honor that bloodline. But when a man has a piece of shit father, an absent father, or a father who wished they were absent, he could care less about honoring his last name or who he gives that last name to.
The solution to dealing with daddy issues is forgiveness.
Forgive your father so that you can begin to honor not him, not your bloodline, but yourself. Forgive him so that you will become a better man than he was. Forgive him so that you may set a good example for your future son ultimately sparing him from falling victim to just any ol’…pretty woman.
WALT FACTUAL
