Young Walt Factual in the 10th grade attempting to shoot his shot: “I got you a lollipop…umm…it’s red…like, like your heart.
Her: “You have no game.”
Me: “…...”
Let’s Go 2 Work.
According to Urban Dictionary, having game means to confidently use one’s attributes, characteristics, and overall personality to win the affection of the woman you want.
You do not have game because of two things, the first, is lack of self-awareness.
Look around you. These days no one has self-awareness. You go to the grocery store and people block entire isles with their carts with no regard for anyone else. People will tell you that they hate people who wear glasses… while also wearing glasses. And don’t even get me started about people driving on the highway. Self-awareness is simply understanding who you are, what you are, and where you are in relationship to your IMMEDIATE environment. If you are going through life believing you're the only character in the movie, game will always elude you.
Second, you have no game because you lack self-knowledge.
Who are you? Where are you going? And why should any woman, who inherently wants a man who can lead her…somewhere, give you one second of her time much less hand over her affection when you as man don’t even know why you exist? As fate would have it, Urban Dictionary also mentioned the following, “You can’t have game if you don’t know yourself and you can’t be confident in what you’re ignorant of.”
So, how does a man become self-aware and build self-knowledge so that he may one day master the art of game?
To become self-aware, you must give a damn. Give a damn about being a hypocrite. Give a damn about how you make other’s feel. Give a damn about how you affect the world around you. Give a damn about not being an idiot.
To build self-knowledge you must take accountability and accept the fact that you don’t really know yourself. From there you must A.I.M, which stands for Answers, Inquiries, and Meditation. Through meditation, you will form inquiries, and through those questions you will find every answer you seek. What’s a good question to start with, how about… “Who am I?”
Game is much more than just saying fly ass shit. In all honesty, unless you say something stupid as hell, women forget the majority of what you say the moment you say it. Game is about knowing. It’s knowing when to push, and it’s knowing when to pull. It’s about knowing how to make them FEEL how you want them to feel. It’s knowing who they are before knowing who they are. But ultimately, real game is not about her… it’s knowing it’s all about YOU.
In the words of Nas, one of the greatest hip-hop MC’s to ever do it, “I got no game it’s just some bitches understand my story.”
WALT FACTUAL
