This comes from the YouTube reaction channel “P’s World” where a young woman recently expressed her love for divorced men…
“Dating a man after his first divorce is…peak. The thing about it is a man who’s recently divorced never thought he’d be back in the game again. And here’s the other thing, either his wife already trained him, so the wife already primed them for you so it’s like a completely primed man or… she was always asking him to do things, he would never do the thing, so now that he’s lost her and he thought he would never lose her… he’s gonna do the things for the next woman, so either way… you’re golden!
They basically do all husband level stuff from the beginning. It’s like now he has a certain level of action, it’s like if he sees a thing needs to get done, he’s just gonna do it.
Now I had to wrap that up for other reasons but I’ma say this… give that divorced man a chance. Yesterday I was at pickleball, I was talking to this one guy and he was like, “I’m newly single… I just got divorced.” You could literally see my ears standing up. I turned and gave him my full attention. I was like, “Really, how long were you married… nine years… REALLY?! I am…so sorry… for your loss.””
For the following, women will say, “That’s not true” or “Not all women.” And I wish it wasn’t so, but it is true, and it is all women.
Let’s Go 2 Work.
All women undervalue, underappreciate, and overlook what is here.
All women love, crave, and will risk it all for what is over there.
This simply means that women hold little to no interest in what they have and maintain great admiration for what they do not.
Why? They are born with the inherent need to improve their social standing by increasing their access to money, social networks, and opportunities.
After all that talk about how great a divorced man is and how they do husband level stuff off the rip, shorty still dumped the dude. For modern women, each man is just an extra story, another work of art, in which they collect for their mental museum.
The rich man who wanted to make her a housewife was her Picasso. The nice guy who worshipped the ground she walked on was her Jean-Michel Basquiat. And the celebrity who fucked the shit out of her on his yacht was her Mona Lisa. Good or bad, big or small, they’re all a part of her collection… a different pic to recall, an added dick to the wall.
Your objective as a Self-Made Man is to forever be the unattainable art. In the book “48 Laws of Power” law 16 asserts, “Use absence to increase strength and honor.” Even if you’re in a relationship, even if you’re married, utilize your purpose to remain mysterious and sometimes unavailable.
Unfortunately, the divorced man, the God-fearing man, the high-value man, will be treated less than because he’s consistently here.
To be truly appreciated, respected, and desired by women, you must always be the masterpiece…over there.
