Female host Lex P. from the “Pour Minds Podcast” said this…
“If I get in a car with a ninja and we going on a date, and we tryna… do something, and you like, “I can’t find nowhere to park.” You ain’t no leader bro! Why you expressing to me that you can’t find no parking spot? Get to the passenger seat ho’ ass ninja and let me drive…I’ma back this slab in. “Ohh, it’s nowhere to park, oh my God…is there a valet?” Pussy ass ninja! You don’t know? You can’t find a parking spot…ewwww…oh my God!”
Let’s Go 2 Work.
I want you to always keep in mind that there are many people in this world walking amongst us… looking normal, acting normal, but are far from it. In fact, lots of these people suffer from severe undiagnosed mental illness. Therefore, you can read 1,000 books on female nature and watch one million red pill videos on YouTube, but if the person is unhealthy, no tactic or strategy will help you in the long run.
Do everything in your power to become mentally, physically, and spiritually strong so that you can not only attract healthy people into your life but also be able to repel and tell those that are not.
Now, after courting and dating a healthy woman for about three months, you need to determine these two things…
Is her goal to get as close to you as possible
or
is her goal simply to maintain the peace and harmony within the relationship? (she can’t say both)
If her goal is to get close to you, then venting about how you feel every now and then is okay. Instead of it being seen as an “ick”, expressed pent-up frustrations and outbursts like, “I can’t find a parking spot!” will be viewed as an opportunity to help, bond, and nurture. A woman with this goal in mind understands that you’re human and is intrigued by your humanity, ultimately giving you the space to feel safe enough to be one.
If her goal is peace, harmony, and a balanced equilibrium…shut the fuck up. Don’t share your feelings and definitely don’t say shit about that parking spot. When her goal is peace, be her peace, and supply some calm in her perhaps crazy, unstable life.
If a healthy woman just wants something chill and doesn’t care to get super close to you at the moment, don’t take it personal. This can be due to numerous reasons which have nothing to do with you, i.e., family, work… life. In the meantime, in between time, focus on your purpose. If being someone’s peace just ain’t your thing, it’s all good, put yourself first and move on. If her goals do align with yours, to be safe, I suggest you still check the temperature and revisit these two questions at least once every year because a woman’s mind changes like Texas weather.
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