You can be unconsciously incompetent; meaning you’re completely unaware that you don’t know something. You can be consciously incompetent, which is when you know that you don’t know. You can be consciously competent; this is when you know that you know something. And then you can be unconsciously competent; this is the sweet spot and it’s what people call the “zone” or “god mode.” Unconscious competence is masterfully doing a thing entirely instinctually and effortlessly.
If you are here, then you’re aware that with somethings you are consciously incompetent, which is good because you know that you don’t know. My goal is to make you consciously competent, and on your own time, you will one day realize that you have become unconsciously competent, not only with women but also in the game of life.
In the book “48 Laws of Power” by Robert Greene, law 46 reveals, “Never appear too perfect.” Greene specifies, “It is smart to occasionally display defects, and admit to harmless vices, in order to deflect envy and appear more human and approachable. Only gods and the dead can seem perfect with impunity.”
A tapped in Self-Made Man must not only never appear too perfect, but he also should know how to appear like a loser who just happens to win…
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How to Be a Loser
#1. Don’t Lead
-Women will say they want a leader, which they do, but at the same time…they don’t. At first, they will be happy to follow you, but overtime, they will resent your position of authority and naturally begin to oppose and challenge your leadership.
Your mission is to always seem carefree and easy going as if you don’t give a fuck about nothing. I’m sorry to say, but you will have to let your woman crash and burn with trivial things. When it comes to things of great importance, she must have absolutely no knowledge or involvement on the matter. You must foresee the inevitable and mentally prepare to be a silent fireman. Additionally, never show indecisiveness, as this will only hurt you.
#2. Don’t Plan
- Women will say they want a man who allows them to just show up and turn their brains off, but again, overtime, she will rebel against you, call you controlling, and will claim that she only ever does what you want her to do.
Your mission is to still plan, but plan and execute in the shadows while never mentioning anything about it. You must always pay attention to your woman while also acting like you never pay attention. She will give hints and mention things casually like, “I always wanted to go to a comedy show” or “I’ve never been on a plane before.” Assuming you're just a guy who doesn’t listen, she will forget her statements made to you. Then, when the opportunity presents itself, silently coordinate and execute your plan. When done right, she will feel like the whole event was her idea.
#3. Be the Adored, Don’t Be the Adorer
- Losers grant women the wonderful experience of being with someone they love. No matter how much they ask for love and adoration, it is women who wants to do the adoring. Think of R&B singer Chris Brown, thousands of women line up to pay $1k each just for one picture. Why? Because women want to be the adorers.
Your mission is to always put purpose first. This automatically puts you in the ‘adored’ seat because women are not only drawn to losers, but they’re also drawn to men with drive. Purpose creates all the tension needed to give her the same roller coaster feelings losers provide. Your purpose will make you detached and unavailable, just like a loser. Your purpose will make you put yourself first, just like a loser. And because your purpose will demand so much of your time, attention, and energy, it will always make you seem less than perfect… just like a loser.
