You Don’t Know Sh*t About Men
What happens to a man after you criticize him…over and over?
What is the most important thing a woman can do for a man?
Are men truly simple beings?
You think you know, but you really don’t know shit about MEN…
Let’s Go 2 Work.
The most significant thing a woman can do for a man is “let”. Let him teach you. Let him help you. Let him fix it. Let him find out that he’s wrong on his own. Let him HAVE your mind and body… completely. Save some things so that you can let him be the first. Let him love you. Let him be a man.
“Letting” him won’t make him think any less of you. In fact, quite the opposite impression will occur. Don’t think for one second he’s not fully aware that you can do whatever it is without him. By not “letting” him, you ROB yourself of creating a union that is complementary and divine.
The most essential thing a man has to offer is his CARE. Care supplies everything a woman needs from a man including but not limited to his chivalry, protection, and provision. When a man cares, there’s absolutely nothing he won’t do. Ironically, when most women are young, fertile, and highly valuable, they tend to chase men who don’t give a damn and often do not appreciate or recognize the importance of a man’s care until it’s too late.
The man that you want to care will NEVER care if you’re the type of woman that loves to withhold. Withhold what you ask? Affection, kindness, gratitude, etc. For example, not telling him “Happy Birthday” because you’re mad is withholding. Not preparing or ordering dinner because of an argument is withholding. Not saying “I’m sorry” when you know good and well you was wrong is withholding.
Men are not simple entities. Overall, we’re adaptive creatures and we are problem solvers. Therefore, if the circumstance is simplistic, we too will be unpretentious. If the task at hand is complex, we will muster all of our brain power to find a solution. A former nice guy who is now an “asshole” is the result of adaptation. So is the explanation for the way any man behaves in any particular way. It’s imperative that more women take the time to study our intricate programming not to manipulate but to better understand us for the sake of harmony and peace.
Your respect for us is more necessary than your love, thus the reason we don’t have love languages, instead, we possess respect languages: Acknowledgment, Desire, Adoration, Submission, and Reassurance.
Criticism will not change a man into who you want him to be. We receive a man’s criticism far better than our woman’s mainly because we subconsciously know, for the most part, a man’s critique has no personal agenda. For a while, we will try to accommodate you, but as time goes on, your criticism is interpreted as nagging and bitching to which we begin to think, “I can’t never do anything right for this ungrateful woman” and eventually, we shut down entirely.
We want marriage, we want children, we want a family, but only… with the RIGHT woman. “He who finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favor from the LORD.” (Proverbs 18:22)
Men wield the great ability of accepting women for who they are as they are. Your forehead big as hell…cool. Don’t cook that well…bet. You never really learned how to read and write…umm, alright fuck it. We not only cheerfully accept who you are but also everything that accompanies you whether it’s good or bad. When we care, we buy the whole package.
As great as we appear, and I wish it wasn’t so, we cannot read your mind… not every day… not in every situation… and definitely not all the time. Every now and then you’re gonna have to “let” us know.
WALT FACTUAL
